Losers In Love, In The Workplace, At Home

Narcissistic Parents
HealthyPlace.com

Get Rid Of Bullies In The Workplace
USAToday.com

Relationship Red Flags You Shouldn’t Avoid
EzineArticles.com

Red Flags For Abusive Relationships
TheRedFlagCampaign.org

Relationship Red Flags
DateSurvival.com

What Are Some Relationship Red Flags For You?
TangoMag.com

The Dirty Dozen - Characteristics Of A Psychopath
A Woman’s Guide to Emotional Abuse

When Mr. Right Turns Out To Be Mr. Wrong
OBGYN.net

The Blame Game
suite101.com

Prisoner Of Love? Break Your Addiction To
A Person
eNotAlone.com

Book Resources

Emotional Blackmail: When The People In Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, And Guilt To Manipulate You
By Susan Forward, Ph.D.

Healing The Scars Of Emotional Abuse
By Gregory L. Jantz, Ph.D.

Were you the ‘love of their life’, their ‘soulmate’ or new best friend
within weeks?
Were they initially charming, saying all the right things, “mirroring” your hopes, desires, and feelings?
Are they jealous and possessive?
Do they have few friends or long-term relationships?
Multiple failed relationships?
Do they badmouth their ex or other friends?
Do they tell lies, big and small?
Does the relationship veer from hot to cold? Do they “Jekyll and Hyde”?
Do they have an unstable work history, frequent unemployment or
job changes?
Do you find yourself “covering” for them, making them appear better than they really are?
Do they have constant financial problems?
Are people mad at them because they don’t honor their debts?
Do they have a lack of realistic goals? A history of living off others?
Are they comfortable taking money from you?
Have they ever used your credit cards without your knowledge?
Do they make you feel guilty about your outside interests, time spent with friends or family?
Do they make you feel you’re not good enough, that you’re lucky to
have them?
Have they ever humiliated you in public?
Do they withdraw love, friendship or approval as punishment?
Do they have a bad temper triggered by something seemingly insignificant? Do you often not even know what set them off?
Do they always shift blame onto you? Is whatever’s wrong always your fault?
After raging, do they act like nothing at all has happened?
Do you ever feel “smothered” by them?
Do they ever threaten, hit or shove you, punch walls, break your things or call you names?
Are they always on the “outs” with someone?
Do they pressure you to quit or change jobs/friends/relationships/homes?
Do they have problems with authority figures?
Stalked anyone for any reason whatsoever?
Have they had Restraining Orders?
Is your self-esteem eroding?
Do you sometimes feel you’re the crazy one?
Is the relationship affecting other aspects of your life?
Do you have a gut, “sick” sense that things just aren’t right?
Do you sometimes wish it would just all “go away”?